Most of the time, it's a fact that we ourselves make us feel miserable. Although we should not be too proud of ourselves but we also cannot look down at ourselves. How to know that we look at ourselves fairly and just? How should we measure it correctly? This is really a tough question.
There are so many things we may learn in our lives. Old philosophy will be replaced with a new one. Anyway, there are some principles that we must hold on whatsoever. In fact, when people know about our mental health condition, we will definitely be viewed differently. Most often, people lie to us that they will judge us as others but they will never do so. It is some sort of a white lie which they prefer just to make us feel better. At the beginning, we would trust them naively, but sooner and later, we would realise that they could never ever look at us the same way as they look at other people.
However, so what? So what we are different? So what that our senses are much stronger than the majority? It's really doesn't matter. Actually, it's really doesn't matter. How others look at us is definitely cannot be more important than how we look at ourselves. Instead of thinking how other might look at us, how about think for a moment how you look at yourself? Good? Bad?
Do you accept your incompleteness? Do you accept yourself? No one is perfect, so why we cannot accept ourselves? Blame. Blame who? Even if you know who to blame but you will never fix it. The actual root cause? No one knows. So why waste your times in looking for the actual root cause?
It took for years for me to accept my mental health condition. In brief, it's worthless that your love ones provide you all the loves and cares but you yourself rejecting every thing.
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